THE RESILIENT WORKING MUM, Stress Management, Time Management, Boundaries, Work Life Balance, Mom Guilt, Burnout, Resilience, Productivity

39 | How to Close Your Laptop When You Still Have Things to Do

At the end of the day, do you find it really hard to close your laptop and stop thinking about the to do list and all the things that you didn’t get done? Do you feel drawn back to it and find yourself working after hours or unable to be present with your family or even yourself? 
The overstimulation of all that is required of us during the day can leave us exhausted and on top of this, we find ourselves distracted and with not enough time. This makes it hard to close down at the end of the day and shift our focus to the other roles in our lives. 
I have experienced this myself and have many clients who have found this a challenge for them so today, we are talking about some of the reasons we find this so difficult and how you can change your relationship with your work, your laptop and your to do list so you can be present in the other areas of your life and the relationships that you have outside of your working life.
If you would like to connect with me, follow the links below:
Find me on Instagram or Facebook: @charlottecoaches
Find me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/charlotte-haggie-5a2451282/
Check out my website: www.charlottehaggie.com
If you would like to work with me to help you overcome the overwhelm and find a way of being that allows you to be healthy, happy and present in your role at work and at home, there are four options for you:
Join my free Facebook group, a  community for overwhelmed working moms who are managing it all. Offering you tips, tools, and encouragement so that you can be more present at work and at home: https://bit.ly/managingmumcommunity
Become an insider and get weekly emails packed with tips on how to be more present and productive as well as early bird access to special offers on coaching and courses: https://bit.ly/themanagingmum
Email me on info@charlottehaggie.com with any questions or to book a quick 5 to 10 minute chat to see I might be able to help you and if we are a good fit to carry out a coaching journey together
Go right now and book a one hour Balance and Boundaries Coaching session with me: https://bit.ly/bandbcoaching

38.1 | BONUS EPISODE - 3 Ways You Can Take Back Your Time

We all long for more time.  Time to do the have tos and time to do the want tos! But it feels like there is never enough of this precious resource and we are running around trying to fit everything in while feeling flustered and exhausted.
Today, I offer three practical ways that you can take back your time so that you can get more done in the day and so that you can feel energized and on top of things.  You can stop feeling that mom guilt that happens when you still have things to do but know that they need you. You might even have some time to do the things that rejuvenate you and give you energy. 
If you would like to connect with me, follow the links below:
Find me on Instagram or Facebook: @charlottecoaches
Find me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/charlotte-haggie-5a2451282/
Check out my website: www.charlottehaggie.com
If you would like to work with me to help you overcome the overwhelm and find a way of being that allows you to be healthy, happy and present in your role at work and at home, there are four options for you:
Join my free Facebook group, a  community for overwhelmed working moms who are managing it all. Offering you tips, tools, and encouragement so that you can be more present at work and at home: https://bit.ly/managingmumcommunity
Become an insider and get weekly emails packed with tips on how to be more present and productive as well as early bird access to special offers on coaching and courses: https://bit.ly/themanagingmum
Email me on info@charlottehaggie.com with any questions or to book a quick 5 to 10 minute chat to see I might be able to help you and if we are a good fit to carry out a coaching journey together
Go right now and book a one hour Balance and Boundaries Coaching session with me: https://bit.ly/bandbcoaching

38 | Struggling to Stay Focused? Stop doing These 3 Things

When the to do list is as long as our arms, it is so easy to jump from task to task, suddenly remembering that something needs to be done or reacting to a request for something from one of the many people who have needs or expectations of us. We are distracted, there isn't enough time to fit everything in and we end up feeling guilty for not working or parenting properly. 
When we are overstimulated by all the demands that are coming at us from outside, we carry a hidden stress that is heavy and we end up not having any time for the fun things in life. 
The flustered, chaotic feeling that comes from jumping around from task to task is exhausting while the feeling of being in flow and getting things done is hugely invigorating and fills us with energy. In this episode, we look at the things that we can stop doing so that we can find that place of flow, of invigoration and energy that will allow us to be productive and get things done so that we can be present with our work and with our children when we close up our laptops at the end of the day.
If you would like to connect with me, follow the links below:
Find me on Instagram or Facebook: @charlottecoaches
Find me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/charlotte-haggie-5a2451282/
Check out my website: www.charlottehaggie.com
If you would like to work with me to help you overcome the overwhelm and find a way of being that allows you to be healthy, happy and present in your role at work and at home, there are four options for you:
Join my free Facebook group, a  community for overwhelmed working moms who are managing it all. Offering you tips, tools, and encouragement so that you can be more present at work and at home: https://bit.ly/managingmumcommunity
Become an insider and get weekly emails packed with tips on how to be more present and productive as well as early bird access to special offers on coaching and courses: https://bit.ly/themanagingmum
Email me on info@charlottehaggie.com with any questions or to book a quick 5 to 10 minute chat to see I might be able to help you and if we are a good fit to carry out a coaching journey together
Go right now and book a one hour Balance and Boundaries Coaching session with me: https://bit.ly/bandbcoaching

37 | Lesson’s Learnt About Living From My Daughter’s Open-Heart Surgery

On 9 June 2022, my two-year-old daughter was wheeled into theatre to undergo open heart surgery.  As I watched her prepare for the surgery and in the days following this ordeal, I was in awe of how she managed the whole process and it got me thinking about why she was able to do so with such calm and ease and peace.
It made me think about how we could live our lives more like this and so I offer my journey through this process and my learnings from this journey in today’s episode. 
If you would like to connect with me, follow the links below:
Find me on Instagram or Facebook: @charlottecoaches
Find me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/charlotte-haggie-5a2451282/
Check out my website: www.charlottehaggie.com
If you would like to work with me to help you overcome the overwhelm and find a way of being that allows you to be healthy, happy and present in your role at work and at home, there are four options for you:
Join my free Facebook group, a  community for overwhelmed working moms who are managing it all. Offering you tips, tools, and encouragement so that you can be more present at work and at home: https://bit.ly/managingmumcommunity
Become an insider and get weekly emails packed with tips on how to be more present and productive as well as early bird access to special offers on coaching and courses: https://bit.ly/themanagingmum
Email me on info@charlottehaggie.com with any questions or to book a quick 5 to 10 minute chat to see I might be able to help you and if we are a good fit to carry out a coaching journey together
Go right now and book a one hour Balance and Boundaries Coaching session with me: https://bit.ly/bandbcoaching

36 | Money vs Time. The Debate Between Working Full Time and Being With Your Children

Do you feel like you are constantly chasing your tail, trying to balance the time you spend at work and the time you spend at home? Do you wish you had more time for your children and yourself and that you could give up some of your work time but you need the money? Does the work life balance seem impossible to find and you wish you could feel less stressed and more in control? 
Today, we are talking about the tension between time and money when it comes to being a working mum and what we can do to ease that tension so that we can be more productive and more present both at work and at home.
If you would like to connect with me, follow the links below:
Find me on Instagram or Facebook: @charlottecoaches
Find me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/charlotte-haggie-5a2451282/
Check out my website: www.charlottehaggie.com
If you would like to work with me to help you overcome the overwhelm and find a way of being that allows you to be healthy, happy and present in your role at work and at home, there are four options for you:
Join my free Facebook group, a  community for overwhelmed working moms who are managing it all. Offering you tips, tools, and encouragement so that you can be more present at work and at home: https://bit.ly/managingmumcommunity
Become an insider and get weekly emails packed with tips on how to be more present and productive as well as early bird access to special offers on coaching and courses: https://bit.ly/themanagingmum
Email me on info@charlottehaggie.com with any questions or to book a quick 5 to 10 minute chat to see I might be able to help you and if we are a good fit to carry out a coaching journey together
Go right now and book a one hour Balance and Boundaries Coaching session with me: https://bit.ly/bandbcoaching

35 | 3 Ways Back to Me Time and What Brings You Joy and Balance

Do you find that you never have a chance to do the things that you love?  Or you actually can’t even remember what it was that you used to do that brought you joy? One of the biggest problems I have come across for working moms is finding ‘me-time’ or taking any time for ourselves if the time does come up or is offered to us. We end up out of balance, impatient and frustrated. 
What I have learnt is how much better we are as moms, employees, managers and people when we are energised by doing things for ourselves or doing the things that make us happy.  So, today I offer 3 ways that you might be blocked from doing the things that bring you joy and three ways that you can find your way back to those things so that you can feel better.
When you feel better, you can be more organized, can focus better and be more productive and you can find the peace and ease that sometimes feels so hard to experience as a working mom! 
If you would like to connect with me, follow the links below:
Find me on Instagram or Facebook: @charlottecoaches
Find me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/charlotte-haggie-5a2451282/
Check out my website: www.charlottehaggie.com
If you would like to work with me to help you overcome the overwhelm and find a way of being that allows you to be healthy, happy and present in your role at work and at home, there are four options for you:
Join my free Facebook group, a  community for overwhelmed working moms who are managing it all. Offering you tips, tools, and encouragement so that you can be more present at work and at home: https://bit.ly/managingmumcommunity
Become an insider and get weekly emails packed with tips on how to be more present and productive as well as early bird access to special offers on coaching and courses: https://bit.ly/themanagingmum
Email me on info@charlottehaggie.com with any questions or to book a quick 5 to 10 minute chat to see I might be able to help you and if we are a good fit to carry out a coaching journey together
Go right now and book a one hour Balance and Boundaries Coaching session with me: https://bit.ly/bandbcoaching

34 | How Her Beliefs Caused Her Anxiety and How That Changed With Shan Wright

Today, I had the great privilege of spending time with Shan Wright who lives in Indiana USA, a working mom of 4 and a registered nurse and wellness coach so we have a little bit in common!
Shan’s passion for holistic healing and wellness grew after her experience with postpartum anxiety. She now shares the solutions she uses for intentional and peaceful motherhood on the Top 3% globally ranked podcast, Holistic Moms.
In today’s episode, Shan tells us a bit about her journey from being a perfectionist with anxiety to finding her calling through her faith and through following God’s truth about her rather than the lies that the world has told her.  
If you would like to book a wellness accountability coaching session with Shan, click here: bit.ly/shanwright or follow her on Instagram at @theshanwright or join her Facebook group here: bit.ly/holistichacks.
If you would like to connect with me, follow the links below:
Find me on Instagram or Facebook: @charlottecoaches
Find me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/charlotte-haggie-5a2451282/
Check out my website: www.charlottehaggie.com
If you would like to work with me to help you overcome the overwhelm and find a way of being that allows you to be healthy, happy and present in your role at work and at home, there are four options for you:
Join my free Facebook group, a  community for overwhelmed working moms who are managing it all. Offering you tips, tools, and encouragement so that you can be more present at work and at home: https://bit.ly/managingmumcommunity
Become an insider and get weekly emails packed with tips on how to be more present and productive as well as early bird access to special offers on coaching and courses: https://bit.ly/themanagingmum
Email me on info@charlottehaggie.com with any questions or to book a quick 5 to 10 minute chat to see I might be able to help you and if we are a good fit to carry out a coaching journey together
Go right now and book a one hour Balance and Boundaries Coaching session with me: https://bit.ly/bandbcoaching

33 | LIVE COACHING: How Do I Stay Focused so I Can Get Everything Done?

In this coaching call, Diane was looking for some help with time management. She came to me looking for strategies to shut out the noise and focus on what matters in every time block and each area of her life.
We worked through what isn’t working for her.  She was distracted and found that she wasn't productive when she had the time to be. She developed a plan that she could take away and implement to help her stay disciplined and focused on the task at hand.
See if you can follow along and practice the strategies offered to Diane to help you keep focused and get things done so that you have more time to do the things that bring you joy. 
If you would like to connect with me, follow the links below:
Find me on Instagram or Facebook: @charlottecoaches
Find me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/charlotte-haggie-5a2451282/
Check out my website: www.charlottehaggie.com
If you would like to work with me to help you overcome the overwhelm and find a way of being that allows you to be healthy, happy and present in your role at work and at home, there are four options for you:
Join my free Facebook group, a  community for overwhelmed working moms who are managing it all. Offering you tips, tools, and encouragement so that you can be more present at work and at home: https://bit.ly/managingmumcommunity
Become an insider and get weekly emails packed with tips on how to be more present and productive as well as early bird access to special offers on coaching and courses: https://bit.ly/themanagingmum
Email me on info@charlottehaggie.com with any questions or to book a quick 5 to 10 minute chat to see I might be able to help you and if we are a good fit to carry out a coaching journey together
Go right now and book a one hour Balance and Boundaries Coaching session with me: https://bit.ly/bandbcoaching

32 | A Bit More About My Journey of Working Motherhood 🥳WITH A BIRTHDAY GIFT INSIDE🎁

Today is my birthday and so I am excited to share a little bit more about where I have come from and where I am today. We look at the tools that I have used to make changes in my life and to transform it from one of striving and fluster and not doing anything properly to one of focus and feeing in control of my future, able to keep that work life balance and enjoy my work and my motherhood.
My aim to is to look back on my life when I am near the end of it and have no regrets. I want to look back on a life of joy where I was able to be in the moment, to really engage with what was happening both at work and at home and to have impacted the lives of those closest to me as well as those all around the world!
I am so thrilled that I get to talk to you on my birthday and I hope that this episode inspires you to create a life that you will look back on and know that it was well and happily lived. Find systems that work for you so that you can manage the stress and overwhelm and be organized, focused and productive when you need to be and present and engaged when you want to be!
As a birthday gift, I am offering the first five people to book a Balance and Boundaries coaching session with me this month 50% off.  Go to https://bit.ly/bandbcoaching and book using the code birthday50 to take me up on this offer!
If you would like to connect with me, follow the links below:
Find me on Instagram or Facebook: @charlottecoaches
Find me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/charlotte-haggie-5a2451282/
Check out my website: www.charlottehaggie.com
If you would like to work with me to help you overcome the overwhelm and find a way of being that allows you to be healthy, happy and present in your role at work and at home, there are four options for you:
Join my free Facebook group, a  community for overwhelmed working moms who are managing it all. Offering you tips, tools, and encouragement so that you can be more present at work and at home: https://bit.ly/managingmumcommunity
Become an insider and get weekly emails packed with tips on how to be more present and productive as well as early bird access to special offers on coaching and courses: https://bit.ly/themanagingmum
Email me on info@charlottehaggie.com with any questions or to book a quick 5 to 10 minute chat to see I might be able to help you and if we are a good fit to carry out a coaching journey together
Go right now and book a one hour Balance and Boundaries Coaching session with me: https://bit.ly/bandbcoaching

31 | The Secret Weapon to Living a Slower, Calmer Life With Balance

Sometimes we lie in bed and wonder how we could make a change to the relentless rush and hamster wheel of life.  Or at least, I have done that many nights of my life! 
And I have found that there is one thing that I can do that can allow me the space and the freedom to slow down and to respond life the way that I want to, living it more intentionally rather than just reacting to whatever next thing gets thrown at me.
I offer this one thing to you today and invite you to try it in your own life in small or larger ways, wherever you can. I would bet on it making a huge difference to how calm you feel, to how you set boundaries and how much time you have as well as many other positive impacts on your life.
If you would like to connect with me, follow the links below:
Find me on Instagram or Facebook: @charlottecoaches
Find me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/charlotte-haggie-5a2451282/
Check out my website: www.charlottehaggie.com
If you would like to work with me to help you overcome the overwhelm and find a way of being that allows you to be healthy, happy and present in your role at work and at home, there are four options for you:
Join my free Facebook group, a  community for overwhelmed working moms who are managing it all. Offering you tips, tools, and encouragement so that you can be more present at work and at home: https://bit.ly/managingmumcommunity
Become an insider and get weekly emails packed with tips on how to be more present and productive as well as early bird access to special offers on coaching and courses: https://bit.ly/themanagingmum
Email me on info@charlottehaggie.com with any questions or to book a quick 5 to 10 minute chat to see I might be able to help you and if we are a good fit to carry out a coaching journey together
Go right now and book a one hour Balance and Boundaries Coaching session with me: https://bit.ly/bandbcoaching